- How
closely do you work with your colleague whom you love?
You work in a different part of the building.
Very closely.
You work together but there are plenty of other people around.
- You
have a crush on a colleague. Are they
At about the same level, perhaps a little more senior or junior.
Much more senior than you.
Much
more junior than you.
- Do
you come from the same background?
You come from different backgrounds, but share friends.
You have similar backgrounds.
You have different backgrounds.
-
Does
your colleague:
Feel embarrassed about making your relationship public, but will go ahead.
Feel happy making your relationship public.
Insist on keeping your membership a deadly secret.
- Is
your colleague
Someone who has had lots of dates.
Married or in a long-term relationship.
Single.
- Do
you have other things in common outside the office?
You have common interests.
You confine your talk to office matters – and romance.
You have a million things to say to each other.
- Do
you see each other at weekends, or is your relationship confined to after
work?
After work on Saturday nights.
After work only.
After work, weekends and holidays.
- Do
you feel proud of your feelings, or secretly ashamed?
Somewhat embarrassed.
Proud.
Ashamed.
- During
the work day
Your colleague sends you e-mails and longing looks.
Your colleague ignores you completely during the working day.
You are
constantly sending e-mails and making phone calls to each other.
- Your
colleague wants to make some closeness with you
Sometime.
Always.
Never.